Wednesday, August 26, 2009

A Summer of Sadness

I think this has been the saddest Summer of my entire life. I don't mean to bring anyone down. I try to be a teller of funny and upbeat tales, but sometimes life gets a hold of things and drips sadness upon us. I think this Summer I have been flooded upon instead of dripped upon.
First I lost my beloved Chloe on June 20.
Then on July 26 we lost David's Dad. "Pops" as we fondly called him was 88. He was absolutely one of the kindest, most gentle hearted people, that I had ever met. He always called me Sweetie. David's kind heart and loving ways are a true reflection of his father. I held off on posting about Pops because.....
today... exactly one month after we lost Pops, I lost my Cutie. This photo was taken two weeks ago when I went to see her in VA Beach. I knew then I was giving her a kiss goodbye. She was 92. She was my "Cutie" grammy. She was one of my most treasured people. She too called me Sweetie.
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy. They are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom." --Marcel Post
Thank you Chloe, Pops and Cutie for making my soul blossom. For not only showing me love, but for giving it so freely. I love you all dearly and I miss you even more.
I'm ready for Summer to be over.....
shell

31 comments:

Vikki said...

:-( so sorry Shelly... it's time for a new season... :-(
Love you and David....
Vikki

Colleen said...

Oh Shelly, I am very sorry for your losses. We lost our grandpa at age 88 in early July too, so I know how you feel. He was also a wonderful, sweet man.

Hugs and prayers to you.

Anna said...

sorry for your losses.
I wish you strenght!

you will never forget them.
they always go with you in your heart

blushing rose said...

Shelly you are in our thoughts, they are all in our prayers. They will be in your memories every single day of your life, the pain will soften in time. Hugs, TTFN ~ Marydon

A Rose Without A Thorn said...

Shell, I am so sorry that you have had such an awful run of things lately. Sometimes it does seem to pour. I hope and pray that things pick up and that there are happier days ahead. Always remember how much you were loved by those that touched your heart..... Maureen

The French Bear said...

Oh honey, don't feel sad, it will be better soon!
I am sending you a huge hug!!!!!
Hang in there my wabbit friend!!!!!
Margaret B

Brynwood Needleworks said...

Dear Shell:
I'm so sorry for your losses. Such lovely photographs of sweet faces. Your heart must be aching. I'll pray that the good Lord heals your heart and takes away your pain to leave you only with all your wonderful memories.
Hugs to you, my blog friend.
Donna

Mary Wadsworth said...

Dear Shell I am so sorry for your losses. I am giving you giant hugs and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

XO
Mary

lisa said...

Shell

I am terribly sorry for your loss, it truly has been a difficult season for you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care sweet Shell.

Lisa

lisa said...

Shell

I am terribly sorry for your loss, it truly has been a difficult season for you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Take care sweet Shell.

Lisa

Miss Gracie's House said...

What a sad but sweet post. You are blessed to have known these loved ones but I know the ache of missing them.
Your blog is a happy place...thanks for the visit to me today.
Rene'

gail said...

Shell, my heart hurts for you:( Please know I am thinking of you. YOur friend always, Gail
big pink hugs ((()))

FrecklesandDeb said...

We're so sorry, Shell. It is hard to lose those who mean so much to us. We'll be thinking of you.

sez said...

sorry, shell :{ i had a year of being poured on last year :) you take it easy, OK?

Joyce said...

Dear Shell I'm so sorry for your loss. You bring such light and joy to everyone and I hate this season has brought you such sadness. I know that you will find the courage to move into the next season with wonderful memories of Chloe, Pops and Grammy.

Hugs and prayers.
MB

Hef's Mom said...

Hang in there Shell, always remember that the sweet wouldn't seem so sweet without the bitter.

Noelle Garrett Designs said...

Shell I am so sorry for your losses. You are such a ray of sunshine to everyone you touch. I am sure all those that are were dear to you felt your sunshine just as you embraced theirs. Many hugs to you sweet Shell. May fall bring a new season of joy to you and those you love. (()))

hugs,
Carrie

Shell said...

From one Shell to another, I send you a big hug. When people you love pass on, it can make life so sad. What I have found is that the people we love are always close by in our thoughts, hearts and memories. I know that won't bring them back yet it helps to heal.

Karen Valentine said...

Oh Shell, If I could be there to give you a big healing hug I would. I'm sorry for your loss. It always hurts so much to lose the one's we love. I hope it helps to know that you have so many friends out here who are sending you prayers of healing. God Bless.

Karen

Debbi said...

2004 was my sodden year of sadness -- lost my mother and my mother-in-law within about two months.

My heart goes out to you and I send you warm hugs of understanding.

Brenda said...

Yes, it's time for fall. And sunshine amidst yellow, orange and red leaves falling. And for you to have a good season.
Brenda

quiltmom said...

Shell,
My sincere condolences to you and yours as you deal with the losses of your loved ones. My grandparents were special people in my life- they loved me unconditionally in ways that seem different to me than my loving parents do. I miss their wisdom and caring and the joy they found in the simple things of life.
May you find yourself surrounded by kind and caring loved ones who support you as you walk this difficult journey. May the fall bring you some wonderful new things to brighten your days.
Warmest regards,
Anna

Vicki Pink Pearl Girl said...

Hi Shell,
I am so sorry for all the losses you have had in your family this summer. I had one year like that too & didn't want to answer the phone for fear it would be more bad news.
I love your post on Razzy & Sugar & the pic of Razzy pouting is just too cute!
I use to have a bunny name Sugarfoot many years ago!
Pink hugs to you.

Miniature Patisserie Chef said...

Hi Shell,

Sorry for the losses you had this summer. My condolences to you and your family. Big hugs to you.

Pei Li

Carolee Crafts said...

Shell I am so sorry for your losses this year, it is never easy to loose a loved one but remember no one can ever take your memories away, they will live forever in you.

Hugs and love sweet friend
Caroline x

Bunny Rose Cottage said...

Shell, I am so very sorry for your losses. This is just too much all at once. You and you family are in my prayers sweetie.
Love you,
Amy

SoCal Helene said...

Shell, me too are so sorry for your losses. Life isn't fair, so many sad things in such a short time. Chloe, Pops and Cutie will always be with you in your heart. Big Hugs to you and Dave!
Helene

Cottage Flair said...

Shell,
I am so sorry for all of your terrible losses. Sounds like two amazing people you had in your life and one beautiful bunny. I wish you nothing but good things in the upcoming months.
Jennifer

shabbyscraps said...

Oh my goodness, what a rough time. I am so sorry. Sending you huge cyber hugs sweetie!! I hope things turn around soon.
xoxo, TIffany

KatCollects said...

Awwwww, I am so sorry for all the sadness. Sending a big hug your way.
Kathy

Dawn-Hydrangea Home said...

Hi Shell,
Your right it has been a stinky summer. I'm so sorry for your losses. I too just lost my favorite uncle on Friday night. He only found out he was sick about a month and a half ago. I've been so upset! So I will celebrate fall with you and the END of summer! Hope you enjoy the rest of your weekend. And thanks so much for stopping by.